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Wes on “The Bachelorette” is a Raging Narcissist
By Lisa E. Scott | June 29, 2009
Ok, ladies, who is watching “The Bachelorette” on ABC this season? As you know I find reality television apalling at times. However, ABC’s “The Bachelorette” always seems to suck me in since it’s about dating and relationships. I love observing human behavior, especially when it comes to romantic relationships. While I don’t know if any of it is real, I do like to analyze it all.
Jillian has a great personality and seems very intelligent. Unfortunately, as has happened to many of us, she is being duped by a con-artist. Wes is a raging narcissist. He is as fake as they get. Both Tanner and Jake tried to tell her, but she does not want to believe it. Why does she refuse to believe it? Because he is charming as hell and brilliant at manipulating her.
After Jillian let Jake out of the hotel room and sat back on the couch with Wes, did you hear what he said? First thing he said before she could say anything was:
“Well, I don’t want you to come to my parents house if you’re going to be uncomfortable or upset now. You know, that is if they’re still up. They’re getting old.”
Did you see any old parents at Wes’s house? Ummm, no. What I saw were five swooning women who did nothing but stroke his ego and talk about how great he is and how everyone is jealous of him. I’m not surprised this guy is a narcissist growing up in that kind of environment.
Did you also notice before Jillian arrived to meet his band, what he said when talking to the audience:
“My number one priority is my music, nothing else comes before it. This is my church. No one, no relationship, no drug, nothing can compare to the feeling of being on stage.”
Hello, Mr. Narcissist! He compares the feeling of being on stage to that of a drug. Being on stage = Primary Narcissistic Supply = Attention = Drug of choice for the Narcissist.
I feel for Jillian because it’s obvious she is falling hard for him, but he is using her to promote his music and has a girlfriend. Even when confronted face-to-face with reality, he denies it without blinking an eye. He’s a total con-artist and I hope Jillian sees through it before she makes her final decision.
Topics: Narcissism | 1 Comment »
June 29th, 2009 at 9:13 pm
exactly my thoughts, what can i say if you are stupid you pay and thats what jillian will do in the end pay for stupidity. i could tell he was lying just by looking at him. when jillian told him she came to know he has a girlfriend the first thing he said “ who one of my guys“. i dont think i would react that way if somebody confronted me and truth was on my side. i would have said “i dont care who told you but i dont have a girlfriend now“ . its unbeleivable for me how women can be so stupid when it comes to fake guys and con artists. i broke with my ex over the same thing , that she let a con artist flirt with her and got closer to him and started flirting with him. i have no regrets and have never looked back. i cant be babysitting people eh.