Archive for July, 2009
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Friday, July 31st, 2009We Shoot Mad Dogs
by Anna Valerious
The debate will likely continue ad infinitum: are narcissists the result of their own free will choices over time resulting in their becoming dangerous and evil, or are they victims of genetics and/or bad circumstances? The debate will likely never conclude because there will always be a large number of [...]
Narcissists Exploit Everyone to Maintain Their Delusions
Thursday, July 30th, 2009by Kathy Krajco
Imagine that you are a narcissist. Remember, to do this, you must do everything you do solely for effect: to draw a reaction from others that gets what you want from them. No other consideration matters to you.
Remember also that you have this unbearable pain inside, the pain of unbearable shame. All your [...]
Life & Pursuing Your Dreams After the Narcissist
Monday, July 27th, 2009Lisa E. Scott, author of “It’s All About Him” will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to avoid or recover from painful relationships with narcissists.
In this week’s episode, Elena will interview Grammy Award winner, Leslie Ellis, about how she overcame her relationship with a destructive narcissist and turned her dreams into reality. [...]
Are You Dating a Narcissist – The Six Red Flags
Sunday, July 26th, 2009In order to recognize a narcissist, it’s important to understand the difference between healthy self-esteem and narcissism. Narcissism is the “enemy” of healthy self-esteem. It is something that looks like the real thing, but is not. Narcissus, as many know, is the legendary Greek character who fell in love with his own image and drowned [...]
Narcissists Do Have Empathy…
Friday, July 24th, 2009JUST NOT FOR YOU!
by Anna Valerious
If you’ve done much research on malignant narcissism you’ve seen it stated that narcissists (and psychopaths) lack empathy. This is only partially true — not because of what it states but because of what it omits. To say they lack empathy is erroneous because most will take that to mean [...]
Healthy vs. Unhealthy Narcissism
Thursday, July 23rd, 2009An Important Distinction: Self-love vs. Self-respect
by Anna Valerious
While I was several weeks into my hiatus this summer a new reader of this blog posed a great question I couldn’t resist making an effort at answering despite my being on vacation. Because the question was in the comment section of an old post I thought I [...]
Lying – the Narcissist’s Stock-in-Trade
Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009by Anna Valerious
The next tool in the manipulator’s toolbox that George Simon, Jr. Ph.D. of “In Sheep’s Clothing” describes is lying. It seems kinda obvious to list lying in the bag of tricks because we all have at least some awareness of the reality that manipulators play fast and loose with the truth to gain [...]
The Narcissist’s Madonna/Whore Complex
Monday, July 20th, 2009Lisa E. Scott, author of “It’s All About Him” will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to avoid or recover from painful relationships with narcissists. In this week’s episode, Lisa & Barbara will discuss why a narcissist views sex and love as mutually exclusive of one another. Narcissists have what is referred to [...]
Christian Marriage: Is Verbal Abuse a Reason for Divorce?
Monday, July 20th, 2009(There have been many, too many, members of All About Him that say their church or families tell them divorce is a sin. I am not Christian but I believe this mantra is DEAD WRONG. In my faith, we get the same sort of nonsense from some clueless, misogynistic rabbis.
Let me say I believe that [...]
New Music Video from Lisa E. Scott
Thursday, July 16th, 2009Leave a comment below after watching Lisa E. Scott’s music video titled “Gotta Get it Out”. Listen to this song. CD’s can be ordered at http://GottaGetItOut.com
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